Unstoppable Magnetism: How to Attract the Life You’ve Always Wanted

Hey, wealth-builders! Eric J Ramsey here, and today we’re diving deep into one of the most powerful yet overlooked forces in your life—your ability to attract success, wealth, and the life you truly desire. Let’s get something straight: you are not stuck. Your circumstances are not set in stone. The key to breaking free? Your mindset.

Rhonda Byrne put it best: “See yourself living in abundance, and you will attract it.” But let’s be real—most people don’t believe that. Why? Because they’ve been conditioned to think small, doubt themselves, and accept struggle as “just the way life is.”

I know this struggle firsthand. For years, I chased success in online marketing. I bought every course, learned every system, and still failed to take action. Why? Because my mindset was my biggest obstacle—self-doubt, procrastination, and limiting beliefs were sabotaging me at every turn.

But here’s the turning point: 80% of success is mindset. Only 20% is tactics. You can have the best strategy in the world, but if your mind is working against you, success will always feel just out of reach.

If you’re ready to flip the script and magnetize success into your life, here’s your roadmap.

I’m not talking about writing goals on a to-do list. I’m talking about using your imagination with laser focus—the same way you did as a kid when you dreamed without limits. What does success look like for you? Can you see it? Can you feel it?

Bob Proctor said, “If you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hand.” And he was right. Every invention, every breakthrough, every success story started in someone’s imagination before it became reality. So why not start visualizing the life YOU want?

Action Step: Create a vision board.

Collect images that represent your dream life—wealth, health, happiness, and freedom. Look at it daily to reinforce your belief that this life is not just possible—it’s already yours.

T. Harv Eker always starts his seminars with, “Don’t believe a word I say.” Why? Because what he teaches comes from his personal experience, and your journey is different.

Your beliefs about money, success, and happiness were handed to you by parents, teachers, friends, and society. Without realizing it, you’ve been running on autopilot, following a script that may not even be yours.

Time to erase that script and write a new one.

Action Step: Identify and challenge limiting beliefs.

Write down the negative money or success beliefs you were taught, then replace them with empowering affirmations that align with the life you want.

Stop feeding off old lies. Starting today, declare your own truth. Speak it, write it, embody it. The power of affirmations is real—what you tell yourself daily becomes your reality.

Here’s how I do it: Instead of scattered affirmations, I focus on one area per month until it becomes deeply ingrained in my subconscious. This works because repetition is how the brain rewires itself.

Action Step: Create personalized affirmations.

Instead of saying “I want to be successful,” say “I AM successful, and I attract opportunities effortlessly.” Speak it daily and watch your mind shift.

Here’s the hardest part—believing before you see results.

The late Bishop H.W. Goldsberry said, “Faith only moves in one direction and is never shaken by circumstances or delays.” That means you can’t wait for things to “feel right” before you act. Faith moves first, reality catches up.

Every great innovator—Einstein, Edison, the Wright Brothers—believed in their vision before the world did. If you wait for permission or validation, you’ll stay exactly where you are.

Action Step: Act as if.

Make decisions like the successful version of yourself would. Walk with confidence. Invest in yourself. Show up for your goals like it’s already done.